|Important Note: Read this article in its
entirety because you're going to learn an attraction secret that
less than one percent of the world's male population knows about
The other day I was talking to a buddy
of mine, a real rock star at attracting women, about, of all
things, Bill Gates. We were discussing how Gates's financial
problems are vastly different from the average person. Bill
spends his days fretting over ways to either make more money or
sustain the money he has, while most people concern themselves
with making money in the first place. The man lives in a
completely different reality from most of us. As we were
chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...
When it comes to succeeding with women, we
realized, we live in a very different reality from most men. In
our reality, generating attraction in women is as easy as taking
a crap - little effort, yet feels great! The skills and tools
for generating attraction are so ingrained in us that when
interacting with gorgeous women, there's not even an iota of
hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our focus, instead,
is on: using the attraction we already know we can generate in
them to get our intended outcome. If there's a woman we're
interested in, for example, we don't stand there stiff and
stupefied, like a deer caught in headlights, wondering: "How in
the world are we going to attract her?" We know, if we just chat
with her for a few minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel
attraction toward us. That's why our focus is entirely on, even
if we haven't yet said a word to her, using the attraction we
already know we can generate in her to get our intended outcome.
But this isn't the reality of most men. "What
to do in the wake of a woman feeling attraction toward you?" is
a thought never crossing the minds of many a man - and
rightfully so...because most can't even generate attraction
inside women in the first place.
A few nights ago, for example, I was at a
little bar down the street from my house. My friend and I
watched a forty-something year-old distinguished looking
business man play the big passive bottom to the verbal gang bang
of two twenty-one year old looking, sponge-brained
rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to attract these
women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks, giving them
lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if they
thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did
these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man
was a walking, talking attraction death sentence.
Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every
attempt to attract a woman was actually turning her off? Or have
you experienced the frustration of trying to figure out why a
woman was more attracted to your friend than you? Or maybe
you've brooded: Attracting women is as difficult as a blind man
trying to find a bobby pin on an open football field. I dunno?
Each scenario represents the reality of not
knowing how to attract women. A reality I personally overstayed
my welcome. I, however, have moved far away from this reality
and now reside in a place where attracting women is cake.
I'm going to share something with you only
known, for the most part, by people living in a reality where
attracting women is as easy as turning on a light switch. This
is something I don't think I've ever talked about in a
newsletter...and might never again. If you've read my book,
you'll know what this is. If you've gone out and experimented
with it, there's a good chance you understand the power behind
Before I get into this I'm going to review
some attraction basics.
Realize this: Most women march through life to
the rhythms of some drum most men will never hear. My job is to
get you to hear those rhythms, so, you can start experiencing
massive success with women. Attraction is neither how a woman
judges you nor what she prefers. Women prefer men who are tall
and dark and lumbered with boa constrictor sized wieners. Think
of the guys featured in Calvin Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie
catalogues. That's what women prefer! This probably isn't you,
and certainly isn't me. But that's okay...because...the men
women prefer and the men they feel attraction for are as similar
as apples are to oranges. Attraction has very little to with
preference. Attraction, instead, is the emotion of a woman
wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a man.
This is why you hear many a woman talking
about her experiences of feeling attraction toward men whom she
finds ugly or as not filling the quota for what she considers to
be her type. When you've mastered the mechanisms behind
generating attraction, what a woman physically thinks of you
will be the least of your concerns.
One of the most effective ways I've found for
generating massive amounts of attraction in women, emotionally
compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, is
what I call "Tension Loops." The best part of using Tension
Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction in
women...regardless of your current looks, social status, or bank
A Tension Loop is when you do something to
create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it,
release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over
again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and
reaching and chasing for more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep
women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months -
sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap
starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking
unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up
until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by
bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally,
the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling
women to tune in for next week's show.
Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the
kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if
you're thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you,
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special
type of Tension Loop I call "Push/Pull." If you aren't
comfortable with the idea of having the power to generate
attraction inside the women you desire, regardless of what they
think of you, you might want to stop reading now!
What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*.
We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have to become Darth
Vader to reap the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy I've come
into contact with, who is good with women, uses some form of
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a
woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in.
Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a
sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your
favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for
several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to
eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in
to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more
intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over
the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about
women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their
proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and
side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story
is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then,
after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're
the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a
self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her
praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever
had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a
little worker bee, struggling to move up to the number three
We can use these psychological mechanisms
without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful
and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your
goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find
you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used
probably over a thousand times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I
might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile
I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll
usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers
on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were
four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out
of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you
number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than
not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually
retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at
all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically
damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the
exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types
of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and
playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion
of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of
attraction tools. Master Push/Pull and you'll leave women no
choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're
repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a
newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In
my book, you'll learn six types of Push/Pull: Intentional
Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster,
Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover
body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a
powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a
woman...even if she tells you, she's not attracted to you.
My book is the only place on the planet where
you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the
surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide. It's a
complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools to
transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction
toward. Just think what it will be like to finally have the
skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat
while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to
take your interactions with them in the direction you want.
Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by
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